The following clip is freaking hillarious to me....but it also had me thinking about a few things.
Before I say anymore, check out the clip...it definitely is funny!
You know, I can't imagine for one second being married to someone for 5 whole years and never ever discussing the topic of anal sex. I know that these are actors performing a skit, but I think that this scene pretty accurately mirrors many real life conversations in the bedrooms of married couples all across the world. In fact, many don't even come close to getting this detailed. I personally know women who would never ever bend over and show their husband their asshole....WTF???
I've spoken to men and women who have no idea what their partners like or dislike sexually simply because they are afraid to communicate. I have plenty of married friends that are totally dissatisfied with their sex lives because they are afraid to talk about what they want. Truly sad!
Ironically, however, I find that same sex couples and couples who are in alternative situations (two women one man / tran and bisexual relationships) tend to be more open about what they need sexually and therefore appear to have much better sex lives than heterosexual couples.
It all boils down to one thing....COMMUNICATION! Communication will lead to exploration! If you already are doing so....hooray for you! If not, you really are cheating yourself.
If you've been married / committed for 5 years, your partner should know exactly what your asshole looks like. Your partner should know every freakin inch of you...and vice versa.
Start talking guys! Yes this skit is funny as hell....but there is a good underlying message in it. Talk Talk Talk to your partners openly, honestly and frequently about sex!!! Cheers!
Tuesday, March 16, 2010
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