What gets me about that episode is that when she confronted the dude about it, he got embarrassed and walked away from her in the street. Everytime I watched that episode in the past, I thought WTF??? But last night I looked at it differently.
After watching that episode, I thought about all of the guys and gals that I have been with sexually who were embarrassed to admit that they liked a certain sexual act. Even if we performed the act together numerous times, they would not talk about it after. So basically, they can perform the act or allow the sex act to be performed on them with no problem. But when it comes to actually talking about the act afterwards....mums the word! It's time to start in detail about the shit that we like sexually.
For example, I love to be spanked. However, I damn sure don't want to be spanked so hard that my ass looks like this:
My ass has to be cute at all times. So a little mild to moderate spank will do me just fine. No bruised and battered ass for me....NO NO NO!
Some people like to be spanked rough until their ass turns red. Hey...we are all turned on by different things. As for me, I want a cute ass 24/7. Later Gators!
Hello, like you blog, nice idea!
ReplyDeleteWell, here it comes: I am one of those who cannot easily talk about their inner perve. Eg: I like spanking. As a rather dominant male it turns me on, it gives me feeling of control and power and that naturally feels good ... but .. I don't just enjoy the casual butt spank, actually I am not into that at all. I like slapping a woman in the face, not in the above mentioned "till you cry" or very brutal way, but rather in an encouraging or slightly dominating way, telling her that I am in command right now. I btw have no problems with being on the receiving end from time to time. I think there should be a balance. My last gf and I found out by accident that we both liked it a lot. However, I have no idea how to communicate that to my now gf, really I have no idea.
Any ideas will be more than welcomed. Please reply, I will check your blog in the days to come.
Hey dude...thanks for visiting! Yes, this can be tough to introduce, especially since many women don't want to feel like they are being disrespected during sex.
ReplyDeleteTry this! If she is open to watching porn, find a video with light face spanking or slight choking/slapping, and watch it with her. Use it as a means of introducing the topic. Nothing too hard core at first, you don't want to totally turn her off from it.
Pay CLOSE attention to her reaction to the movie before you say anything about it. If she doesn't tell you to turn it off, casually ask "What do you think about that?" If she doesn't respond with a flat out "HELL NO!" then she is open. You have a pretty good chance of getting that freak out of her!
You can also visit an adult store together with her and slowly make your way over to the section with the leather whips and paddles and chokers. Casually show interest in these items in front of her. If she shows a bit of interest too, then she is definitely open to domination. Again, pay attention to her reaction to the items closely before you say something.
Now for the action! Once you find that she is open to these acts, slowly start to dominate her during sex. Here is the kicker----Make absolutely sure that you are talking to her while you are dominating her!
So what do you say??? Tell her how fucking hot she is...how good and wet and tight her pussy is....how she makes your dick harder than ever....how her tits are so fucking pretty and soft....basically, make her feel super hot during the domination! Grab her, lick her, suck her, kiss her everywhere you can while dominating her at the same time! She will feel like you are totally into her rather than feeling like you are disrespecting her. This will turn her on....hell, I'm getting turned on just typing it!
Gradually become more and more agressive with her and be patient. Once you get that freak out, she'll start to become more agressive with you. Good luck dude! Tiny
It worked!
ReplyDeleteKeep up the good work and have fine week/weekend!